Defense to Offense

Ever met someone who is extremely defensive, either they have an excuse for everything or completely denies the matter at hand? Is it safe to say we’ve all been that person whether it was for a season or because of a specific subject, I think so! Defensiveness is embedded in our human nature however it takes a groomed character and maturity to admit fault and point that real strong finger to ourselves!

Remember Adam and Eve in the Garden, first pointing the finger at the serpent or Satan and then Adam pointing the finger at Eve. They were exposed and then offended.

of·fend·ed

resentful or annoyed, typically as a result of a perceived insult.

The nature of an offended person is to become defensive. The saying “hurt people, hurt people” is true. An offended person, takes the position of defense and not only to stand against what’s wrong but what’s also right.

Offense is the breeding ground for spite, un-forgiveness, bitterness, pride and so much more.

I’m an advocate for healthy communication because if done correctly, it leaves no room for assumption. Many people are offended by what they merely THINK, we get all worked because we’ve made ourselves believe that the figment of our imagination is actually real!

Communicate if you feel wronged, maybe they tried to hurt you or JUST MAYBE they never knew they did!

Offense has ruined and strained many relationships, stop walking around wearing your emotions on your sleeve and that chip on your shoulder.

Change your position!

When offense comes to try attack your emotions, fight back. Instead of trying to fight the person, put on your best defense gear and conquer your own emotions.

Cheers to healthy minds and hearts!

References: Merriam-Webster Dictionary